To Whom It Resonates: I see that you may be thinking heavily about a situation because you are now in a bind where you were put in the middle of a disagreement between two friends. As much as you do not want to be the meditator, you are going to have to be the unbiased participant. Your loyalty is to both parties but you can clearly see from your view who is wrong as hell and who’s right. This standpoint may place you as the villain or that you’re choosing sides, but that should not be your concern, because these are your friends and the truth will prevail. The problem in connection with this is that they are in a relationship and your view is that since it’s they’re relationship, you shouldn’t get involved. This situation is the exception because you were there from the beginning of this relationship to the present so they’ll respect your opinion, which is more of a fact. Have the strength to speak up when your voice is needed, being passive when you can be of assistance is not honorable. Once you put your two cents in, leave the situation alone and the ultimate decision will then be on your friends to make amends in a way that suits them. Your only job is to be a good friend.

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